ok the thought just occured to me (why it didnt already i dont know). she has already paid back approximately one third of the money. there is always an excuse why she cant and even last week she told me she had lodged it to my account for it to turn out she hadnt.

anyway, there should be two records on my account to show she has lodged money. would the bank be able to show where the money was lodged and that it wasnt by me? some other bits were paid back cash in hand before we broke up but i cant prove that.

is the fact shes paid money into my account proof that she intends to pay me back and that it was in fact a loan and there was an agreement pay back my money?